Fair Chore Split Calculator
Because “helping” isn’t the same as owning.
Part 1: The Hours Audit (Weekly)
Be honest about paid work, commuting, and caregiving hours.
You
Partner
Part 2: Who Owns These Now?
Total hours will be calculated based on average task duration.
The Reality Check
Comparison of total weekly hours (Paid Work + Care + Chores).
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Your Total Load
0 fixed + 0 chores
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Partner Total Load
0 fixed + 0 chores
Calculating…
The “Re-Deal” Proposal
To balance the load based on available time, here are suggested shifts:
Conversation Starter Script
“Hey, I plugged our hours into this tool to see why I’m feeling so drained. It looks like I’m doing X more hours of total work per week. To make it fair based on our job loads, we need to shift about Y hours of house work. Can we look at re-assigning [Task] and [Task]?”